the sacred and profane

Sacred and Profane Entry 3

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Entry Three: Vanity and Dancing

There is something really sexy about being able to dance with no inhibitions. Like most of you, really letting loose dancing is something I do best solo, at home with no one around and yes, a bit of wine to the mix sweetens the deal. Where does the vanity come in? When I dance, I really feel the music, feel it in my whole body my whole being and I move in a way that is unique to those moments. What I do, and what I’ve been doing now for over 20 years is watching myself dance in those moments in a reflection, it doesn’t matter if it’s a mirror, a window, or off my computer screens reflection. There’s something so damn sexy about the way I move and feel that I wish I could feel all the time! I’m so turned on and I get this look, like I could seduce anyone without even trying, it’s like it would happen by default. When I was in my early 20’s and broke as a joke, I thought about trying my hand at being an Exotic Dancer, because I’ve got the goods and the moves, but…sadly…when other people are present, it’s just not the same. So I had to bid that career farewell. However, my current beloved dances with me into the wee hours of the morning every so often, and there’s something about him, or it could be the wine and the sleep deprivation, either way, I’m starting to enjoy him watching me dance and dancing with him during those late nights…I love how he admires me and drinks me in…I think he enjoys me just as much as I enjoy me when I’m dancing solo and that, as weird as that sounds, is a total turn on. Here’s to getting your groove on beautiful people, cheers!

Entry Two: Sex and Pizza

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One could argue which is more profane and holy, Pizza or Sex…to me, pizza is the profane and sex the sacred. My beloved’s favorite date day for the past two years when the seasons turn and the frost blankets the ground in the early morn, is a meal thick crust pepperoni pizza, cuddling on the couch, a thought provoking film and after, sex on the couch. After, we nuzzle on the fuzzy blankets and I dust his face with angel kisses. We dated long distance for a time and when we connected would have these extravagant dates and once he moved in, the best date days began to consist of nothing but delicious food and one another. And I have to say, as boring as that sounds, I’ve never been happier.

The Sacred and the Profane: Entry One

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Entry One: Tequila and Holy Water

I was helping a friend of mine ground in on the painting she was working on, trying to listen to the being coming forth on the canvas, the Virgin of Juquila. I closed my eyes and took a deep breath in, we had tried music from the region, she put colors prominent in clothes in that area and symbols, however, there was still something we were missing…another deep breath in and out, listening for the Divine’s guidance…and she said, mix some tequila with some holy water from a Black Madonna, a few sips for yourself and the rest on me…

Alright my dearest Lady of Juquila, tequila and holy water for you it is.


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